Guys, dudes, don't be stupid. We do not always mean what we say. So do not take everything just the way it is. Man and woman are two different species, and we tend to use the language in different ways, and of course in different meanings. Kadang-kadang, inilah penyebab ada masalah komunikasi in a relationship. Perempuan cakap lain, si boyfriend pulak faham lain. Kami, kaum wanita lagi suka analyze situations rather than to rationalize them. That is why sometimes, couples do have communication barrier and this might be the answer for the endless fights and arguments!
FINE:
Fineeee! This is our favorite word bila kitorang pakai untuk end the argument. Kalau bila tengah gaduh tu tiba-tiba dengar perkataan "Ok, fine." or , "I'm fine" It actually means that, "Dahla!. I am right. I'm always right. Sila tutup mulut sekarang cause i am really mad at you." Ia perkataan yang dipakai bila tanak memanjangkan lagi argument, so bila dengar je this word, it is advisable for the guys to just shut up. :P The word fine actually stands for, "freaked out, irritated, nervous and emotional."
NOTHING:
It always means something. Keep that in mind. When you ask "Ada apa-apa ke ni?"and she says, "Takde apa" or "Nothing" it actually means ada banyak benda yang bermain dalam fikiran kitorang and we dont wanna discuss it with you, or it will end up in an argument . It usually will relate to you guys! Jangan paksa your partner to tell you everything, because when she's ready, she will tell you. So bila dia cakap nothing tu faham-faham la it actually means something. :P
ESOK YOU BUAT APA?
It actually means "esok KITA nak buat apa?" *hehe* We want to be a part of your plans, most of the time. We are one clingy creature, aren't we? So, it is advisable for you guys to ask her back, *kalau betul-betul takde plan la*, "Tak tahu lagi. You nak pergi mana?" Eventhough we might deny it, excited ok bila kaum anda tanya macam tu. :P
ENTAHLAH. I RASA OUR RELATIONSHIP DAH SEMAKIN PUDAR/BORING
No, she is not trying to break up with you la gila! Kitorang nak hangpa semua jadi lagi romantik macam jejaka dalam cerita korea tu, be more spontaneous and suprise us! Tak salah kan call her out of random, brings her somewhere special. For example, beach! Or kalau nak senang, time tengah dating tu suprise her with flowers or a box of chocolates. Simple things like that is enough to put a smile on our face, all day long. :)
IT'S OKAY/ TAKPE
It's okay means "no it is not okay, i still marah dekat you tapi i tak nak gaduh dengan you. Siaplah you nanti." So, please watch out when we say this sebab kitorang might still terasa dengan apa yang korang cakap/buat.
I'M HAVING A BAD DAY
"Please stay away from me." The cause is either PMS or YOU. Kalau boleh when your girl is serious that she's having a bad day and wanted to spend her time alone, let her be. Do not freak out and gives her some space. When she's okay, she will definitely ring you back. :)
CANTIK KAN DIA.
Do not agree with her! *eventhough the girl might be pretty* We actually want you tell us that we are beautiful, not HER. "Yeah, the girl memang cantik tapi look at her ugly spots on her right cheek, it's hideous." Kalau nak buat girlfriend anda happy, you should tell her *tipu sunat pun takpe.haha*, "Nahh, you are way prettier than her baby," Kombang lobang hidong kaum hawa bila anda semua berkata sedemikian eventhough we know that ramai lagi orang cantik. We LOVE compliments tp janganlah over pulak. haha.
TERIMA KASIH BANYAK-BANYAK
Ada dua maksud. Firstly, we really thank you. Another one is, "Thank you" for ruining my day, you son of a b*tch!" Kalau penggunaan tu tak sesuai, contohnya masa tengah gaduh, she really means the "second thanks". It signifies that you have offended her in some way. It's the word that we use untuk perli kaum anda. Kami memang suka cakap berlapis, yes we do :P
WHATEVER
"Arghhhh..Benciiiii..why can't you agree with me??" We use that word bila kitorang dah rasa menyampah dan meluat when you guys selalu nak menang. We are irritated by you. Seriously.
IT'S OK. SUSAHKAN YOU JE
"It's not ok, i really want you to come and see me now. I need you" We do not want to burden you wahai jejaka kacaks sekalian, but when you trouble yourself for us, kami sangat menyukainya dan menghargainya.
But of course, each woman is different. Maybe tak semua yang macam kat atas ni. It's YOUR job, kaum adam sekalian, to learn how your girl operates. Goodluck! Well, I really mean it :P
FINE:
Fineeee! This is our favorite word bila kitorang pakai untuk end the argument. Kalau bila tengah gaduh tu tiba-tiba dengar perkataan "Ok, fine." or , "I'm fine" It actually means that, "Dahla!. I am right. I'm always right. Sila tutup mulut sekarang cause i am really mad at you." Ia perkataan yang dipakai bila tanak memanjangkan lagi argument, so bila dengar je this word, it is advisable for the guys to just shut up. :P The word fine actually stands for, "freaked out, irritated, nervous and emotional."
NOTHING:
It always means something. Keep that in mind. When you ask "Ada apa-apa ke ni?"and she says, "Takde apa" or "Nothing" it actually means ada banyak benda yang bermain dalam fikiran kitorang and we dont wanna discuss it with you, or it will end up in an argument . It usually will relate to you guys! Jangan paksa your partner to tell you everything, because when she's ready, she will tell you. So bila dia cakap nothing tu faham-faham la it actually means something. :P
ESOK YOU BUAT APA?
It actually means "esok KITA nak buat apa?" *hehe* We want to be a part of your plans, most of the time. We are one clingy creature, aren't we? So, it is advisable for you guys to ask her back, *kalau betul-betul takde plan la*, "Tak tahu lagi. You nak pergi mana?" Eventhough we might deny it, excited ok bila kaum anda tanya macam tu. :P
ENTAHLAH. I RASA OUR RELATIONSHIP DAH SEMAKIN PUDAR/BORING
No, she is not trying to break up with you la gila! Kitorang nak hangpa semua jadi lagi romantik macam jejaka dalam cerita korea tu, be more spontaneous and suprise us! Tak salah kan call her out of random, brings her somewhere special. For example, beach! Or kalau nak senang, time tengah dating tu suprise her with flowers or a box of chocolates. Simple things like that is enough to put a smile on our face, all day long. :)
IT'S OKAY/ TAKPE
It's okay means "no it is not okay, i still marah dekat you tapi i tak nak gaduh dengan you. Siaplah you nanti." So, please watch out when we say this sebab kitorang might still terasa dengan apa yang korang cakap/buat.
I'M HAVING A BAD DAY
"Please stay away from me." The cause is either PMS or YOU. Kalau boleh when your girl is serious that she's having a bad day and wanted to spend her time alone, let her be. Do not freak out and gives her some space. When she's okay, she will definitely ring you back. :)
CANTIK KAN DIA.
Do not agree with her! *eventhough the girl might be pretty* We actually want you tell us that we are beautiful, not HER. "Yeah, the girl memang cantik tapi look at her ugly spots on her right cheek, it's hideous." Kalau nak buat girlfriend anda happy, you should tell her *tipu sunat pun takpe.haha*, "Nahh, you are way prettier than her baby," Kombang lobang hidong kaum hawa bila anda semua berkata sedemikian eventhough we know that ramai lagi orang cantik. We LOVE compliments tp janganlah over pulak. haha.
TERIMA KASIH BANYAK-BANYAK
Ada dua maksud. Firstly, we really thank you. Another one is, "Thank you" for ruining my day, you son of a b*tch!" Kalau penggunaan tu tak sesuai, contohnya masa tengah gaduh, she really means the "second thanks". It signifies that you have offended her in some way. It's the word that we use untuk perli kaum anda. Kami memang suka cakap berlapis, yes we do :P
WHATEVER
"Arghhhh..Benciiiii..why can't you agree with me??" We use that word bila kitorang dah rasa menyampah dan meluat when you guys selalu nak menang. We are irritated by you. Seriously.
IT'S OK. SUSAHKAN YOU JE
"It's not ok, i really want you to come and see me now. I need you" We do not want to burden you wahai jejaka kacaks sekalian, but when you trouble yourself for us, kami sangat menyukainya dan menghargainya.
But of course, each woman is different. Maybe tak semua yang macam kat atas ni. It's YOUR job, kaum adam sekalian, to learn how your girl operates. Goodluck! Well, I really mean it :P
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